Posting on here really is a last resort to settle my nerves and hope for some advice or just personal experience, so here goes..
Me and my sons dad broke up when he was 6 weeks old due to him taking drugs, mentally abusing me and completely isolating me from my friends and family, when we broke up he moved back home to his family who live 100 miles away, he came to see my son 3 weeks after we split and sat bragging about the parties he’d been to and the drugs he’d taken, after this he started being aggressive towards me so I cancelled any other contact and said to be in touch with a contact centre where drug testing can be done, it’s been a couple of months now and I had a letter come through for mediation as he wants my son every other weekend at his home (this is a very unsafe place as all people that live there substance abuse, as well as sell drugs from the property and always have questionable characters in the house) it would honestly break me to send my baby to that house as I know he would be in danger and he always threatens to take him even though he isn’t on the birth certificate, I’ve accepted mediation and will attend the MIAM but I honestly can’t see either of us compromising on something and to be honest I’m afraid to even be in the same room as him, it’s become clear now that he isn’t afraid to take it to court so my question here is if anybody has been through anything similar and can please please give me some advice or be able to tell me what happened during court and what the likelihood is of him getting contact (thanks so much for reading if you got this far)
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Zoemay123 · 04/11/2019 12:48
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