My DD3 (age 7) told school she is scared of dad on her visits to him, and he hits her and her sisters. DD2 (age 10) was then also questioned and corroborated the story. DD1 (age 12) is at high-school, and although she hasn't been hit she is scared of him.
Police and social workers have come to talk to them at home - police want to question him and potentially charge him, but if he denies or states no comment then the case will be dropped. So they have asked if I would allow the children to give video evidence instead.
DDs are scared of him and don't want him to know they have raised a complaint - they say they would prefer he carries on as before (hitting, emotional abuse) rather than him knowing they have said this about him, especially as he is sometimes nice so the situation is confusing for them.
Social worker is more concerned/concentrated on the emotional impact and said she will support us with getting child contact orders in place (we don't have any custody arrangements, the DDs have lived with me since I left 5 years ago and he has never contested this), although they have seen him regularly throughout this time.
I am considering them giving video evidence if they are happy with this but having read up online it looks like they would also need to be cross-examined in court, is this right? In this case I am not sure I want to put them through this.
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My DC have disclosed physical and emotional abuse when visiting exH, what happens now?
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Finals1234 · 04/11/2019 09:19
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