Hi,
I am estranged from my mother. I have heard from my brother (who I'm on good terms with) that she has made a will where she leaves 50% to him and 25% to each of my two children (her grandchildren).
She has "not named me as an heir". But she has made me an executor, along with my brother.
She's not likely to die any time soon, but I don't really know what this means. Apart from I think being just vindictive, what does it actually mean for me? What will I have to do? Is it to force me to hear the contents of the will and learn I've been disinherited (she doesn't know my brother has told me) or some other reason. Is it normal to do this? Why would you do this, other than as a bit of a mindfuck?
Her estate won't be massive or anthing, but there will be a mortgage free property to be sorted out and some savings. Would I need to help apply for probate and so on, or is that only where there's no will? I had to apply for probate when my dad died as they'd divorced years earlier, but then he didn't have a will.
Thanks for any advice. I don't care about the money at all, I'm just wondering if there's a reason (beyond pissing me off) why she's done this?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you have any legal concerns we suggest you consult a solicitor.
Legal matters
Being an executor of a will you're disinherited from
30 replies
golondrina · 15/01/2019 17:51
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.