My problem is I have elderly parents living in Yorkshire. Mum has Alzheimers and my dad recently had a small stroke and is now really not up to being carer for her. He is 83. They have help in for her most mornings then yesterday she fell and broke her wrist, bruising her face. All very worrying and upsetting for me. I live 200miles south. Am dashing up this week for a few days.
Tried to move near them early this year and had to take to court and had job interviews lined up. DD is age 12. Court said NO. Not until she is 16. Her dad lives down here but DD does not have a close relationship with him and sees him an afternoon every other week despite my encouragement. Trouble is I am having issues reconciling the courts decision over my natural instinct which is to move and find cheaper flat to rent up their as costs here are outrageous. There would be somewhere for her to go while i work.... some extended family while it lasts.... This is affecting me and my relationship with my daughter. She wants to move with me although I know she would prefer to stay here due to getting to know new school and mates. That said she is quiet and doesn't have friends outside of school. Sorry to go on.... Many factors here but I am not happy and worry about parents. Did the courts take all this into consideration? You bet they didn't! I don't know what to do. Desperate!
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Lastresort00 · 18/09/2018 22:21
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