Posting here as posted in Divorce and Separation and have been terrified by responses.
Told DH I wanted to separate 8 months ago. He asked me to leave. I felt incredibly guilty and had feelings for someone else so agreed to give him space. Rented small flat locally where I am 4 nights per week. Other 3 in family home.
I am at family home every day 7am to 7:30-8:00pm take kids to school 2 days per week, collect them every afternoon bring them home, clean cook their tea etc.
DH does not want to sell house. He cannot afford to buy me out so is offering me 40% of my equity (20% of total) to buy somewhere.
If I don’t agree to this could he say he is main carer and resident and I get nothing and he gets kids?
I pay him maintenance. Otherwise he could not afford to live here. I used to work part time but have upped hours to full time since separation. I finish early at 3 every day to collect kids.
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Separation - I have moved out 4 nights a week. Will I lose the kids?
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NancyIris · 18/02/2018 16:57
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