Last year was a very stressful time for my family- in the heat of the moment my other half hit out at our little boy. Because I was angry at him, confused and needed to talk to someone I told someone who reported it to social services and the police. Although what he did was completely unacceptable to me I did not want the police involved because I believed that our family would not be helped by dad being arrested and potentially losing his livelihood. Suffice it to say there was no issue before or since- it was a moment of very high stress for everyone and he did something he admits is not acceptable.
The social services investigation concluded that we as a family would access some welfare support through the forces (husband is ex army and the stress was a result of that) but the police would record an assault against my child and my husband as a suspect. I said no comment without my solicitor to the police, and they never arrested or questioned him, me or my child.
My husband has today been offered a job where he needs a DBS cert (unclear at what level). It's not working directly with children or vulnerable people. Is this likely to come up on a DBS certificate? This job is so important to us as a family, I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if he lost it.
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DBS certificate- can they include a crime you haven't been arrested for?
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squarecorners · 30/01/2018 22:24
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