Hi,
For a few years now my eldest son has not wanted to go to his fathers home.
His father is extremely controlling , not only of my children but tries still even though we are divorced 9 years to control me , by continually harassing me via email and text about anything he can ( even though I have asked him repeatedly to only text/ email if it is necessary)
I asked my son to wait until he was 16 , as I felt this would cause less problems as he has the right to choose himself .
I was wrong , I have received a nasty email claiming I have to give his father notice if my 16 wishes to go to his home even though he is collecting my eldest 2 little brothers .
We have a shared care agreement of I have 4 nights and there father has 3 nights but I am unsure whether this still applies to my eldest son.
My son is still in education at a local college until he is 16.
Surely I do not have to give advance notice? ( which is virtually impossible with a teenager anyway )
I personally feel this is just another excuse for their father to contact me in some way or harass me .
Thank you
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Mumof3mentobe · 09/11/2017 11:13
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