Just want some legal advice, not relationship/leave the bastard/flaming. Marriage has been in difficulty for years, counseling hasn't worked. Have 2 kids with medical problems, and suspect DH has aspergers (attempting to get diagnosis but slow going). I'm under a lot of stress dealing with it all, and have wanted to separate for a couple of years. DH very resistant, wants to live with his kids/wife /dog and won't move out even tho I've made it clear how things stand. Been in separate bedrooms for over a year. I was left with choice of move out with kids (couldn't afford to rent a family house) or find another solution, even if only for a year or two. Decided to have extension over study, to give us 4th bedroom and en suite for DH. Thus everyone has own room. This has just been finished, and has probably added 35k upwards in value. Took out £25k on mortgage to pay; DH agreed to this and signed as joint mortgage. However I am paying this share back from my earnings, @ £300 a month. DH continues to pay main mortgage, most bills etc. Yes I know he's done well out of this. My question is; if the house is ever sold, can I get something drawn up to protect the 25k cost of the extension? So that I get that portion back as I'm paying for it, before house is split? DH will still be benefiting from the extra value in the house. How do go about this, half hour free consultation with solicitor? Presumably DH will have to sign agreement ? Thanks for any help and please don't judge, I'm doing the best I can in difficult circumstances.
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Can I get a letter drawn up to protect my money?
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minxthemanx · 01/11/2017 14:55
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