I've namechanged for this.
The father of my child had a history of violence. He has 3 convictions of assault against me and was arrested a month before my child's birth for punching me in the stomach. (Thankfully baby was fine). I didn't press charges as I was about to give birth and couldn't deal with another court case. As soon as the baby was born he was investigated by social services who told me that if I got back into a relationship with him my child was at risk. He was assessed and deemed a threat to myself and child. It took a lot of convincing the s that I would never take him back. Once they were happy I was being sincere and he wouldn't be back in the house they disappeared. Since then he's caused nothing but problems for me and my child. He is a compulsive liar and I'm sure he has lied to my child's school. god knows what lies he's told. It's really bothering me now as I want to be left in peace without having to constantly worry about what he's up to. He is obsessed with making me out to be crazy. I must add I do not have a mental health record, have no criminal record and have not been investigated my social services. I'm sure he's lied about all these things. What can I do about this?
I'm having a word with the school after half term. I am going to bring evidence of his past convictions towards me as well as proof from ss of he's investigation and pre birth arrest. I'm sure he calls the school weekly with a sob story and lies which I know would equate to slander. I'm also sure he has faked docs etc as I wouldn't put that past him I know him too well. Can I access any emails or correspondence that he has sent school? How would I request this?
I would like ss to contact school to confirm all of this as I'm sure he has already lied to them and this may cause them to doubt me even with evidence. I'm not sure if I'm being too paranoid?? He is being investigated by ss at the moment in regards to a child in his care. its all pretty terrible on his end.
I'm taking him on now , I'm not sitting back and leaving him to lie anymore it's making me depressed and paranoid. Can I stop him from contacting the school? He's deliberately Caused trouble in the past by lying. I have to stress that he is pure evil and has no empathy. He's seen a psychiatrist before.
Ps, In regards to my child's safety , I've done everything I can to prevent contact. And intend to continue. He doesn't want to pay for a solicitor because he's main aim is to annoy me, not to see this child. I know this because he's deliberately missed scheduled appointments in the past and has ignored my child for months at a time.
Just to confirm he has
3 convictions (that I know of) of assault against me
Multiple arrests to do with dv
He's been investigated by ss twice for two different children
He lies continuously and often projects what he's done onto me. He's told people I was arrested for abusing him (this was word of mouth I have no written proof of this) I know it's slander. Help me kick him into shape! Any advice especially legal know-how is much appreciated!
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Purplepinkstone · 25/05/2017 00:23
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