I have 2 children, live with DP, have done for 11 years, not married, joint mortgage. I put more money in as a deposit but not much more. I would be happy to split the profit equally if we sold to keep things amicable.
However I doubt he would be amicable & I'm not sure he will even agree to sell. I know I have no rights to his pension or anything really. But presumably he would need to split any profit & then pay maintenance for the children? They would live with me with a small amount of time each week with him. I think he would agree with that.
I'm not really sure where to start. Keep reading threads where people say 'I've got all my ducks in a row' but I'm not really sure what I need to get sorted.
I just tried to use the child maintenance calculator to work out how much maintenance he may need to pay but need to know his income pre tax but minus pension. I don't know exact figures. And how would I go about ensuring he actually paid anything without taking him to court?
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yawningbear · 16/05/2017 16:29
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