Hi I'm wondering if anyone has any advise about this. I have an 8 year old daughter and after 8 years of her father wants access after 8 years of nothing. I told him when I was pregnant as I thought he had a right to no even though we had never been in a relationship it was just a one off thing that happend. He said he wasn't intrested and that I should get on with it. Anyway I to cut a long story short I landed up back with my ex partner and even though he new my daughter wasn't his he wanted to take her on as his own and be her father so when she was born I contacted her real dad and told him what I was going to do he said yes let ur partner bring her up as his own put him on birth certificate because I don't want any part of it. So that's what we did we desided that it was best for my daughter that we would explain this all to her when she is older. However since then every time he splits up with his wife he contact us and says he wants access then goes back with her and stops contacting us. Yesterday I got an email from him saying he's seen a solicitor and they are going to find out were we live through social services and get a court order I'm beside my self with worry can anyone give me advice on what to do ??
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My daughters father wants access after 8 years of no contact
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Cumber · 09/05/2017 12:33
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