Hi, I know I'm probably getting wound up about nothing but hoping someone can calm me down.
My "dad" left my mum when I was about 8. Mum always encouraged contact and myself and siblings saw him on and off for years. I chose to go completely nc at about 11. My youngest sibling still sees him, middle child doesn't. He is very controlling and manipulative and sued for custody claiming my mum was poisoning us against him. After a long time CAFCASS finally interviewed us and produced a massive report documenting a history of abuse - not sexual but occasional violent and emotional on a daily basis. Court ruled that two eldest need not have any contact if we chose not to and youngest could continue at a level they were happy with.
Anyway! Cut to now I'm pregnant with my first child and youngest sibling has asked if my email address can be passed on as "dad" wants to contact. I allowed for the sake of my sibling as I knew it would be hell for them if they didn't. Cue email from "dad" asking to be a grandparent and have access. Neither myself or my dh want this to happen and will fight it. However "dad" has a history of taking things to court and being a pillar of his community getting what he wants. It's like people don't see who he really is.
Anyway, if you've stuck with me you're amazing! Does he have any rights to sue for access? Google keeps saying yes unless we can prove that it will be a dangerous situation for the child. Scaring the crap out of me.
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MotherOfBeagles · 17/04/2017 21:43
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