Long story, apologies in advance. My sister was in an emotionally and possibly physically abusive relationship with this bloke (F). In June march? Last year she managed to persuade him they needed a break so left him for 5/6 months. In that time She had a 2 month 'relationship' with one of her friends (G)( they had a bit of a thing before F came along) then F came crawling back around September making promises etc saying all that kind of guff to get her back. Sister agreed for whatever reason, then a few days into the relationship they DTD and then at the start of December she found out she was upduffed (contraception failure) and refused to get an abortion. Throughout the pregnancy sister assumed baby was Fs, and She stayed with F until baby was 6 weeks old. He isn't on the birth certificate and social services who were involved because sister had been in care and is young mum didn't have a problem with that. Anyway, she kicked him out because he was beginning to threaten her and got physical twice. (resulting in police attendance) After the break up we worked her dates out and there's a gap of 4/5 days between her being with F and G. We haven't mentioned anything to F because he'd go mental and he lives round the corner from her. since they broke up, F's asked to see baby a handful of times (she's now almost 8 months old) and on a couple of occasions hasn't shown up anyway. On Saturday Sister and I went for a meal and she went to see G as he lives round the corner. Dm had baby so sister and G went back to hers because he's in a shared flat and flat mate doesn't like visitors. After being at hers for half an hour, F shows up, heard G talking and tried to break into the house while saying he was going to kill them both. Sister and G ran inside and locked the doors but sister left her phone outside in the porch so had to go get that. (No house phone and G's phone was at his) By this time F had climbed over the porch and gone through the back door, forced his way past sister gone into the house and attacked G. Police and ambulance were called by the neighbor. Then today, she got a phone call from social services saying F wanted access 3 days a week and when sister protested they said baby is his child (they're aware she might not be) so there's basically naff all we can do to stop it. Sorry this is so long and might not make sense (my phones dying) but I just wanted advice to see if there was anything we can do. Even if baby is Fs child we don't want him being around her because he's a truly horrible person. If you made it to the end then thanks
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