Ds 8 has had access with his dad every other weekend, his dad went travelling for 6 months and has now decided to move away about 250 miles. Ds has been really distraught during the time he's been away and is going to devastated when he realises that he's moving away for good.
His dad has asked for weekend access every three weeks and then half of the holidays, I think this is going to be unworkable long term as he has form for not working and the cost of travelling will be very expensive and is likely to not keep up what has been agreed. Also having a full time job and leaving his girlfriend for the weekend every three weeks sounds fine now but I can't see it as a long term solution.
I'm suggesting mediation as I want some answers about why he's doing it and what he thinks it's going to do to ds. But is it me that's being unreasonable? Surely if I moved away he would have something to say about it ? How does it work the other way round ?
It's driving me crazy as it will be me that has to comfort a crying child who doesn't see his dad.
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Any thoughts on fathers changing access after 7 years ?
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prettywhiteguitar · 02/09/2016 16:38
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