After nearly six years of blocking any attempts to proceed with divorce, bully boy Ex decided to move things forward a couple of months ago. Nisi issued.
He's refused to engage with my solicitor-I want a clean break settlement and have no interest in trying to retrieve everything he and OW have stripped away. FMH in negative equity but I can afford the mortgage if he's made to pay maintenance. That's all I want. There are £1000s in other properties, pensions etc. I want none of it. I want peace of mind.
I had given my solicitor instructions, his solicitor has refused to acknowledge them and he's issued proceedings.
Part of this is his ongoing financial abuse. He knows I've paid out thousands in trying to protect the kids ( convictions for abuse)
Am hoping that we get to court and the judge will tell him to behave himself. He can't argue that I won't agree to his proposals when he hasn't bloody told me what he wants or is prepared to give?
So bloody tired of his bullying and hoping that somebody can reassure me.
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Lelloteddy · 31/05/2016 21:48
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