Really would appreciate some advice! My partner broke up with his girlfriend almost a decade ago. They owned a house together and they agreed he would change the deeds so it would just be in her name, despite him contributing a lot to deposit, mortgage etc while they were together - he just wanted to cut ties and she was getting a v good deal.
Later, she backtracked and changed her mind, accusing him of ulterior motives etc. She wouldn't let him take his name off the mortgage (need her signature for this too), and we gave up and moved on with our lives (mistake)!
Flash forward to almost a decade later - we find out she hasn't been paying something (we know it's at least a bill, possibly the mortgage) and now people are trying to track my partner down. We saw CItizens Advice Beaureu a couple years ago, who told us because we now live in another country in the UK they would need to get through 2 courts to get to us, the creditors/bank would more likely go after her than us. This is clearly not the case anymore, as I've had letters from debt collection asking him for his whereabouts and so have his parents. I feel like it's only a matter of time now before 'they' find him, and it's v stressful!
All we ever wanted was to get her out of our lives. We tried to do a nice thing and give her the house (she could afford the mortgage repayments by herself!) but she deluded herself into thinking we had some ulterior motive. Now my partner is in serious legal trouble, and I don't know what to do! He wants to play the waiting game - CAB told us not to do anything unless he gets a letter addressed to him personally. I want to see a solicitor but am concerned about costs - is getting this mess sorted out a simple matter or will it be v expensive?! Thanks for any advice! I have no understanding of the legal system!!!
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PalominoStar · 11/07/2015 12:55
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