Today I received paperwork from the court telling my my ex husband has applied for an emergency prohibited steps order to prevent me from moving with our 3 year old daughter.
I have been offered a job in the Isle of Man following a long application process- jobs are allocated nationally only once a year so I have to take it, that's just how it works. I've just finished training, so need this job. I have kept my ex updated with the applications the whole way through and he had seemed supportive- I assured him that I would enable contact, organise and pay for all travel (it's a 20 minute flight), and that he would be able to see dd as much as possible. I believed I had his consent- he has said to me both verbally and by email that 'he's willing to be flexible and he's sure we'll make it work'.
He currently sees dd every other weekend and 2 nights midweek every other week, so 4 days per 14. I was proposing he has her for one long weekend or one week out of 4, so still 4 days out of 14 when we move. I've endlessly tried to encourage him to see dd more, or to contact her by phone or skype, but he's always 'too busy'.
There's a hearing on Wednesday, I only got the paperwork at 2pm today (our post is always late). I'm not even sure I can get a solicitor's appointment by then. I can't afford one anyway- we have literally no money, we paid the deposit for the movers with the last of our savings. We're also due to go on holiday in 9 days, which I am sure has something to do with his timing.
I honestly have no idea where to go from here? Can he stop us from moving at this stage? He's known about this since March! We went to the CAB this afternoon who are trying to get us a solicitor's appointment but I am in such a panic.
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IKnitSoIDontKill · 19/06/2015 16:20
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