I'm looking for some advice regarding my sister's partner who has two children from a previous marriage. His two sons are 6 and 10 and he previously had them three nights a week after school and they stayed with him every other weekend. Although he and his ex-wife didn't really get on with each other they kept all contact agreements amicable and fair for the sake of the children.
His ex-wife has also been in a long-term relationship and she knew about my sister. It was never an issue regarding contact.
However, early November last year the ex-wife's relationship broke down and since then she has refused the father any contact with their son's as she doesn't like the fact that her ex is in a relationship when she isn't.
As s result he hadn't seen his children for three months, not even over Christmas. He has gone round to their house many, many times and although he knows they are home his ex-wife won't answer the door. He has tried phoning but his ex-wife just hangs up on him. He's really, really upset about it and doesn't know what to do. Apparently she has form for doing this in the past and is only happy to restart access when she meets another man because then it's 'fair' as she's in a relationship too.
He said that this is that longest time she has ever stopped him seeing the children though and he is devastated.
He cannot afford a solicitor in order to get a formal arrangement in place which his ex-wife knows. She knows that the father can do nothing about it and loves having that control over him.
Both my sister and her partner are really upset by all of this because it's so unfair on him and so unfair on the children.
Surely he must have rights?
Can anyone offer any advice that I can pass on?
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Father not being allowed to see his children.
Writerwannabe83 · 04/02/2015 15:27
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