Both retired with smallish pensions. Children grown up and left home. House jointly owned and paid off. Long mostly unhappy marriage!
I am trying to divorce as cheaply as possible as we will try to buy separately and money is very tight. We want a clean break. I have the decree nisi.
H originally agreed on division of pensions and 50/50 the house. All other assets and savings (personal as we have had separate finances for years) to be left out of the equation.
I can apply for the absolute in a few weeks time but now H has refused to show me any evidence of his pensions. I know they are more than mine so he will need to pay part of one to me to level out our finances. He has consulted a solicitor. I can't go any further if he refuses to cooperate and to get the relevant documents from his pension provider.
What happens if I just get the absolute with no financial order set up?
How do I force him to disclose the financial side of things?
He agreed initially to us both having a similar income after the divorce but has changed this after speaking to the solicitor. She has said though that the outcome will be a 50/50 split.
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Have decree nisi. Husband will not disclose finances so that we can agree financial order.
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Weathervain · 06/01/2015 12:15
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