My sons biological father has decided after 13 years he wants contact with my son. We were not in a relationship, he wasnt at the birth, he has never been involved, he is on the birth certificate as he said he didnt want my son to be considered illegitimate, he has never financially supported his son or sent him anything on birthdays or christmas. We fell out after he kept claiming my son wasnt his, I said I was happy with that, I didnt want people to think my son was his! I've since met someone who my son calls Dad, has done for 5 years and we have two more children. Every couple of years he get maudlin and trys to get in touch, I ignore him and he forgets about it, but this year he seems more insistent.
Does he have a leg to stand on? He doesnt have automatic parental responsibility as my son was born before that came into effect, can a parent who has always been absent, never supported, ask a court to force a teenager to see him? As far as I'm aware he has no permanent residence, has been in prison etc
My son is very settled, goes to a good school, has a great relationship with the man he thinks of and calls Dad, I've heard that a court will ask a teenager if they wish to see the parent but I dont want to unsettle my son by putting him through anything to do with a court
where do I stand?
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absent father wants contact after 13 years
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jemima39 · 30/12/2014 13:21
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