i am a father of 4 .i had custody of my 2 kids from a previous relationship after my daughter was sexually assaulted by her mum's boyfriend which resulted her in contracting Herpes. Last mothers day while the kids had gone for contact , i was accused of physical violence against all my children. the list included head butting , kicking , punching , ear pulling and so on. i was arrested and locked up in a cell for 7 hrs. the social services did not contact me at all.i chased them up and only managed to get info after 2 weeks. they have been siding with my ex who made the allegations. i have only seen my kids in a contact centre on 3 occasions and once for overnight contact. the paediatric assessments found no proof or signs of abuse.police took no further action as they could find no evidence. in the mean time i lost my job on the ambulance service. my wife nearly lost her job as a midwife. despite providing all the dental , gp and their own paediatric reports social services insisted we were on the wrong . one paediatrician even described my youngest son as the most normal child she had seen a long time. yet the social services were determined to stop any contact including making up lies . we went for the final hearing last week. the judge agreed all these allegations were lies and that the social services had not much of a case against me but he stated that the children should remain in their grandmother's care inorder to maintain the STATUS QUO as was recommended by the social services. In short the judge rewarded my ex for making false allegations. that means the children will permanently reside in Bedfordshire were their mother will have unsupervised and unlimited access with the children. i have looked up STATUS QUO argument online and it's very difficult to overturn or appeal. I'm stuck ,any help welcome.
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statusquomyarse14 · 23/11/2014 07:47
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