Background: In November of last year I made applications to the family court regarding non molestation orders and occupation of the family home. These orders were granted for both the children and myself and my exP was evicted from the family home. He is not allowed to have contact with me, but he is allowed to have contact with the children, but not to harass, pester or threaten them.
So far, so good. Now he has decided he would like to see the children, but due to his behavior the children refuse to see him and they are of course frightened of him.
He announced at the end of last month, that he would want me to engage in (shuttle) mediation about the children and I would be contacted by the mediator. I said that was fine. The mediator has not contacted me. I phoned the mediator today and they confirmed that they have not contacted me. ExP wanted to wait for the outcome of the financial meetings and therefore he instructed the mediator not to contact me.
This morning a letter came through from exP's solicitor that he now want to make an application to the court about contact, because no progress was made and I was not cooperating.
We replied that this is not due to us, as I have not been contacted by the mediator due to exP's instructions.
I have huge ongoing legal costs and I cannot afford to instruct my solicitor about contact matters, as I hope to be able to sort this out myself. I seriously have reached the end of the line and there is no more money in the pot.
How do I go about representing myself? What do I do when I receive their application?
The children are 10 and 14.
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ExP is now threatening to take me to court regarding access to the DCs
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Karenthetoadslayer · 14/08/2014 17:59
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