Hello! I posted this in 'chat' but thought i'd try here aswell.
I would love some advice regarding Grandparents and their rights regarding access.
Abit of background info.
MIL is Toxic, because of how she is, we stopped contact about 9 months ago. She is unreliable, selfish, only see's things from her POV, lets us down, makes herself the victim, never says sorry for her behaviour, spread lies, was very.open about other peoples buisness and medical infomation (mainly mine!)..and lots of lovely traits.
We (kind of) saw her once a week or whenever she was bothered she would cancel visits sometimes 30 mins before she was due to being tierd, having her done etc. Then moan she doesn't see DD enough.
She would choose the day/time. Dh would pick her up/take her home.
Sorry this is getting abit long now i'll cut it short.
In the end, she couldn't be arsed to see the DDs. Made us feel guilty and blamed us. I had just given birth, she even told us we wasn't making time for her when i was in labour with DD2.
Because of how she acting, and had been acting, we cut contact as it was just more stress that we didn't need.
Lots and lots more.
I just have, a horrible, sinking feeling we will get a letter from the courts about access and its making me feel sick.
I have an anxiety disorder since having PND with DD1 and i just worry so much.
She let DD1 down so much before we cut contact, shes older now and we have Dd2.
DH has said there is no way in hell she will go to court as that involves effort.
What are the chances she would get access?
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Grandparents rights. what are the chances?
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MommyBird · 19/05/2014 18:53
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