Dh and I really need to do our wills. Dh has one but it's not up to date and I don't have one at all. I was talking to my friend about this as she has done one recently, and she was saying about selecting a guardian for her ds, which in her case was her sister, and quite straightforward.
The thing is I have no idea who we should choose. We have ds who is 2, and I'm pregnant with dc2. Dh parents are both nearly 70, my mum is younger, although not by much, but on her own so would certainly struggle with 2. And in any event, assuming dh and I died in eg 5-10 years, none of the grandparents are going to be in a position to look after young children full time. My brother lives VERY abroad, and won't be returning to the uk. Dh and I both agree that his brother would not be suitable. Ds godmother is my very good friend, and while I'd be more than happy for her to have him, they have 2 dc of their own and I think having 2 more would be an issue, especially financially (although obviously they would have money from our estate) ds godfather is dhs friend, his children are all grown up and I'm not sure he'd want to inherit another 2.
This is giving me sleepless nights! How on earth do you make sure your dc are looked after in the event of your death?!
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Tory79 · 01/02/2014 21:50
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