A friend has pointed me to this site, my first time knowing it existed and my eldest is 15!! SO firstly, hello - I hope I can contribute to this site for some of you, although it is today I am asking for help
I hope someone can help me, I've been so stressed I've taken today off work as sick even though I can ill afford to have this on my attendance record as after my own divorce and DH's divorce was treated for depression for nearly 2 years with all the stress and took so much time off work I was eventually sacked.
That is all behind us and we are now married, have been for over a year, I'm back in work as of last September and loving it, and although things are tight financially (who isn't!) a letter landed on our doormat from the local county court for a notice of hearing in now 2 months from his ex-wife as she wants to use an 2010 document from their divorce proceedings against him to apply for a CSA variation as evidence he has assets and diverting his income ..... and if he doesn't agree she will charge him her solicitor costs and court fee. I've had a miscarriage (only early days (8-9 weeks) but has still shaken me up and I do blame the stress of this for it! )
I'm so worried for him and us, we can't afford more solicitor fees and court costs (both still paying off divorce debts) he does hold the title of director at his company but he gave the CSA his P60, payslips and dividend figures from day one to make sure the calculations were correct .... and now this. He isn't lying about his net income, the CSA told him what the figure was based on his gross and if anything it is less as his tax to be paid is more than they calculated now the accountant has had a look at the figures. Husband also now has a contact order and the children stay with us more than originally but his ex has made him agree not to inform the CSA of the new overnights (was approx 70 due to her, but court now ordered him to have 130 nights access) so has got us over a barrel, I think? Does he have to give my income details etc, my child maintenance I receive or any of my assets (he moved into my house but since we married I have had him added to the house deeds)?
Help :(
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boobyooby · 09/10/2013 16:45
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