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Really scared. Received Notice of Prosecution and I don't know why.

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KnotInTheStomach Mon 09-Sep-13 16:10:54

I got a Notice of Intended Prosecution from the police accusing me of Failing to Stop, Failing to Report and Accident, Careless and Inconsiderate Driving.

I was in the time and the place mention in the letter so I was definitely the driver but I have NO IDEA WHAT I'M SUPPOSED TO HAVE DONE! How can this be?

I've filled in the form and said as much on the back. Was that the wrong thing to do?

I'm really scared. Should I seek legal advice now? I wouldn't know what to tell them. Will I definitely have to go to court?

Thanks in advance for any light anyone can shed on this. I have a terrible knot in my stomach all the time and I don't know what to do.

lougle Fri 13-Sep-13 23:06:41

Not quite the same thing, but when I was around 16 I was having a lift home after a games night at a friend's house. A police car pulled us over and asked us why we'd thrown our chip paper out of the window. We hadn't had any chips confused.

We ended up having quite a strident exchange and the policewoman and policeman insisted that they had seen us do it.

Eventually I asked them if they could smell chips in our car at all. They sniffed and said no grin

It turned out that we had joined the carriageway and sucked a chip wrapper under the car from the bank. The policewoman had seen it float out the other side and assumed we'd chucked it out the window.

Totally irrelevant but there you go wink

Glad it's all sorted for you.

KnotInTheStomach Fri 13-Sep-13 16:58:51

Just like you said, TCOB. I've had another letter saying they're not going to proceed with this.

Damn that was scary! I'm relieved but a bit pissed off to have been put through it for nothing.

Thanks again for your help. You talked me down nicely.

KnotInTheStomach Wed 11-Sep-13 00:09:18

Thanks OhDearNigel. I sent the forms back sharp ish because I didn't open them for a while as they were addressed to my dh (who's named as car owner) and he was away. So already there was a delay but I got the form in within the stated 28 days.

I'm still quite scared about this but nothing like the abject terror I was feeling before. That's thanks to Mumsnet.

OhDearNigel Mon 09-Sep-13 22:54:20

and please sent the forms back. failing to declare the driver information will get you into trouble whether you have done something or not

OhDearNigel Mon 09-Sep-13 22:52:00

and Op, you havent been charged. they are simply investigating an allegation. unfortunately most people panic when cautioned and think "thats it, im off to prison !!" when actually it is a legal requirement for us when asking anyone for an account of events which may eventually lead to them being prosecuted.

i know its very easy for me to say but please try not to worry. its just an investigation at this stage.

OhDearNigel Mon 09-Sep-13 22:48:25

they dont mean failing to stop for the police. with the other charges, this means failing to stop at the scene of an accident.

it is a legal requirement for us to give a NIp when dealing wtih these sorts of thing. the file is probably being dealt with by the central ticket bureau who send you a standard letter asking you to give an account of events. the notice of intended prosecution basically means "we are considering prosecuting you so be careful what you say". its essentially a caution in letter form iyswim.

once they have your response they will decide whether it is in the public interest to take you to court.

TCOB Mon 09-Sep-13 18:03:15

Well, I wouldn't say that I am sane but certainly not madder than before grin . Keep us posted; the support on here meant a lot to me and I'm pleased it's helping you too!

KnotInTheStomach Mon 09-Sep-13 17:56:14

Good point dread. Ill only say this if they ask.

KnotInTheStomach Mon 09-Sep-13 17:44:17

Thanks again TCOB. I've read the thread and I feel so much calmer. If I had really hit another car or caused any serious damage I would most definitely have felt it wouldn't I?

I didn't even have the radio on as its broken.

DreadLock Mon 09-Sep-13 17:38:41


DreadLock Mon 09-Sep-13 17:37:58

OP I would not disclose that you were on your way back from a hyno session.

KnotInTheStomach Mon 09-Sep-13 17:31:52

Thanks so much TCOB. Very reassuring. It's SO helpful to know someone else has come through it alive and sane!
Cheerymum that is so galling. Some of these insurance companies behave disgracefully. They shouldn't be allowed to terrify people like this.

Off to read TCOB's thread.

Billwoody Mon 09-Sep-13 17:29:05

I got one of these. I was about 22 at the time and I was scared witless until I realised that my car had been in the garage on the day in question. We thought it had maybe been a garage driver that had been involved while driving my car - however, it turned out that the police had sent out six similar letters; they had a partial plate and sent it to all local red cars with similar plates. My dad sent a very strong letter to the Chief Super accusing them of intimidating a young girl on no evidence - and they apologised!
Not relevant in your case though as you were obviously there. The flashing is interesting - it could have been the driver who has now gone through his insurance co?

Cheerymum Mon 09-Sep-13 17:15:38

We got one of these forms from the police and we were sure we weren't there. An independent witness said we were. We completed the form truthfully and spoke to a police officer and our insurers. The police were friendly and kept us in the loop until they were able to confirm they were dropping it. The insurers tell us they are going to pay out on a without prejudice basis - I am actually annoyed about this, and at the moment it's showing as an open claim on our record, so to change insurers we'd have to declare it, but no criminal part to deal with at least.
Phone your police traffic division, and ask to speak to the officer assigned to your case. It sounds to me most likely that someone is trying something on. The police will most likely be friendly and reassuring, and this is probably related to an insurance claim (real or fraudulent) that is being made against your policy. Does your policy include legal cover? If so, phone for advice.

TCOB Mon 09-Sep-13 17:15:30

I was a damn sight more culpable than you as you can see....!

TCOB Mon 09-Sep-13 17:11:57

Nope. I didn't got to court - and I had made a real mess of a few things, not least of which was not yet having changed my address (itself something you can get a large fine for), hence I did not respond until after the allotted time for a response. My neighbour at the time was a police officer and he was consoling. I did all the paperwork, sent it back, then about a week later got a call saying thanks but we won't be following this up. My insurers were great, said they understood totally why I hadn't noticed and that the damage to the other vehicle was consistent with my report (i.e. verrry minor, it just happened to be the type of car where even a new tyre costs a fortune!) and now it's just a bad memory, as it will eventually be for you.

Looking for the wretched thread, but it's lost grrr! Will keep trying...

Yorkieaddict Mon 09-Sep-13 17:06:58

Don't panic OP, its a standard form that is sent out in these type of situations. If you genuinely didn't know you'd been in an accident then you've done nothing wrong and its unlikely to go any further once the police have spoken to you and got your account. Have you checked your car for any damage?

KnotInTheStomach Mon 09-Sep-13 17:05:36

TCOB. Sorry.

KnotInTheStomach Mon 09-Sep-13 17:04:25

God thanks TOBC. I'd love to read your thread. I'm terrified. Did you have go to court?

MrsDeVere Mon 09-Sep-13 17:00:55

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

handcream Mon 09-Sep-13 16:59:59

To lighten this up a bit. I was stopped many many years ago by a marked police car who said they had spotted me trying to fill up my scooter and making a bit of a mess of it. They followed me up the road and said they were just checking everything was OK.

I then arrived home and the two chaps were waiting outside my Mum's house (they had looked me up using the DVLA). They then asked me whether I would like to go to a party with one of them that weekend!!

At the time I was ironically going out with a police officer....

TCOB Mon 09-Sep-13 16:59:06

Knot please try not to worry - exactly the same thing happened to me (well almost, I thought I'd touched a car but no way that I'd damaged it) and had the notice of intended prosecution. The insurance company will be behind this as they can't proceed unless they say it's a genuine incident and they need ref number etc to do this. The police by and large have no interest in pursuing these cases, they are NOT in the public interest, all they are bothered about is oiling the machinery of the insurance companies who will sort it all out on your behalf. I could not sleep, or eat. I genuinely thought I'd destroyed my life. I had not, and nor have you. Please don't worry. I know exactly how you feel. My thread on the subject was under another name, think it was notreadyforprison in Legal, will try and find to post.

Consider your hand held and a nice brew gently placed in your hands.

handcream Mon 09-Sep-13 16:56:16

Why dont you take a deep breath and make an appointment to see someone at your local police station as opposed to thinking up scenarios that are getting worse and worse. Sometimes its best to see people face to face especially as you have no damage to your car which of course you will invite them as being welcome to inspect.

VivaLeBeaver Mon 09-Sep-13 16:55:52

You're doing the right thing saying you were there but that you didn't notice an accident.

LaurieFairyCake Mon 09-Sep-13 16:55:38

Clearly someone's reported you for hitting their car.

It doesn't mean you did though.

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