Hi h walked out about 5 weeks ago we have 2 dc aged 4 and 7. He has suddenly realised the true cost of leaving and the fact he can't actually afford a place of his own while he is supporting us. I am a ft student and sahm so don't earn anything, therefore he has said he will continue to pay mortgage (£650 per month and also the credit card and car loan £200) while I am studying until I get a job. I will pay all household bills and everything for the dc childcare, activities, clothes, shoes, food etc. He wants to sell our car to buy me a cheap car and to buy himself a car, plus try and clear some of the credit card and car loan. Can he do this? According to the child maintenance calculator he would only have to give me £280 per month. So is it best I just keep my mouth shut about him selling our car to clear debts etc when he is paying me in essence £850 per month even though i wont physically get a penny. Also he is holding me to ransom and everytime i say something he doesn't like he threatens to only pay bare minimum and quit his job so he only has to pay £5
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