Hope you don't mind me making a shout out for you like this
Our case has been listed for a final hearing now in 3 weeks and I'm beyond nervous. You might remember some details - Ex wants 3 weekends in 4 and to drop most of his mid week visits due to distance (14 miles). He is rejecting every other weekend and half holidays. He said the distance is my fault and I should relinquish some of the weekends ( he obviously puts it across more reasonably than this, but this is essentially what he thinks)
My solicitor is crazy busy and I'm struggling to get answers to some worries I have). We need to submit statements in 2 weeks time. What I need to know is how long do they need to be? He said something about it being 30 pages long but I struggle to see what I could say to fill 30 pages. Also, do ex and I see each others statements? What if he raises something in his that I need to respond to or provide evidence to counteract? Will I get the chance before the hearing?
Ex has been unpleasant in his original court app about my parenting of dd, and my sol said he wants to 'box all this off' with evidence about how well dd is actually doing, but is it not best to just let ex do his whining and stick to the facts? I don't want to be aggressive about him, just want dd's time with us to be equal.
(I'm terrified of being cross examined btw but I guess that's another issue)
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Final hearing - collaborate, spiro, babybarrister?
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nicknamegame · 07/05/2013 10:55
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