- Who is responsible for paying the mortgage? Both
Can husband insist on wife paying half of it even if she isn't living there? No, but if she does not pay house may be repossessed so not a good solution. If she earns more than he does he may have a right to payments from her - maintenance . Sounds like they cannot afford to keep on the mortgage so will have to sell.
- What are husbands rights about seeing dc? He wants them every weekend but so far, nothing has been agreed.
He should try to negotiate to see them. Some fathers have children all the time or every other week which helps the mother to go to full time work and savs her costs on nurseries and nannies so she may jump at the chance of very real hours of childcare.
He needs to speak to her urgently about it and may have to say he will apply to court if she will not give contact. How old are the children and do they want contact?
- Who is responsible for the debts. (Its mainly credit card debts in wifes name, but the purchases can be proven to be for husband)
Legally the person whose name is on them BUT when they agree the divorce finances all debts of both and all assets of both are calculated and then split so in that sense it does not matter whose name they are in.
- If they chose to sell their property, can husband make all of the arrangements without any input from wife?
This is often set out in a court order on divorce finances eg who shows prospective buyers rouind, which agents are used, what price advertised at, obligation to keep house nice before a viewing etc. Worth getting it in the divorce finances consent order if they cannot reach agrement otherwise one or other could scupper the sale by misconduct. Even if not much profit likely to be made much better they sell than on a repossession sale much under value or at auction.