Just over 12 months ago I had a ridiculously petty row with a "friend" not even gonna say what it was about it was that stupid. It resulted in her completely losing it and reporting me to social services for neglecting my son (horrific allegations). This was proven to be malicious (obvious to me and my family but was extremely upsetting and involved a hospital visit for my 4yo son). She then reported me for benefit fraud (again unfounded). She sent messages through Facebook and texts to my phone (changed my number). She even went to my son's nursery and told them lies about how I was treating my son. It lasted about 3 months (Jan to march) and ended when she gave birth to her ds. I spoke to the police/ss/benefit fraud about taking it further. A police officer called her on the phone (???) to issue a harrassment warning but decided not to as he saw it as a petty dispute and in his words "the people who come to the police first aren't usually the victims" ridiculous! All calmed down eventually as I said and I've not had any issues with her since. I never once confronted her about what she did, haven't spoken one word to her since either face to face or otherwise. On Friday I received a notification of a visit letter from the job centre, called them today to double check the appointment due to the snow and found out she has maliciously reported me again! I am beyond angry! Everything looks so petty now I've written it down but what she did caused so much heartache and upset and i refuse to go back through it because she's decided to start things up again. Who actually does this?! Is there anything I can do from a legal point? No one is helping me or taking me seriously. Sorry for long post, thanks in advance for any replies!
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BattlingFanjos · 21/01/2013 20:44
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