Ex took me to court recently to change how he sees our dd. He wrote that wanted every weekend fri-mon on the application, but when we got in the court room his sol said he was actually only seeking 3 weekends out of 4. He wants to drop his current mid week visit to dd as he says the 13-14 mile journey is too much for him.
The way he presented his argument was to say he is asking for '2 weekends on and one off', thereby making it (I feel) sound more reasonable, but it still means 3 weekends out of 4 for him, or 3 in 8 for me.
I rejected this. I don't want to be relegated to the parent who does the drudge of homeworks, school run etc. Dd does activities at weekends which will mean giving those up. This proposal isn't fair on her. The clerk asked is to consider mediation, so we agreed and have a review hearing in feb.
I cannot see ex backing down from his position in mediation. He said he needs to drop the mid week ( it has been going for well over 2 years) and his missed time needs to be made up at weekends.
My sol thinks it will go to a final hearing. Is this likely to go his way? I am distraught at the thought of having barely any free time with my dd, she will barely see her friends:/
Can anyone advise? What is my defence against this kind of order being imposed?
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pinguthepenguin · 19/12/2012 20:25
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