My x who when i left abducted our son, kept him for 6 wks, put him in a new school 100 miles away, now is threatening court again cause i am not happy he has set up a email acct for my 11 yr old son. I am not too happy cause previous court says he is allowed to call son twice a wk (wed & sun). I have full residency too. He took me to court about 3 yrs ago, to get allowance to take son abroad and wanted passport. I said no - bearing in mind he told me once he would have him out of the country and i wouldnt know where son was! I was so scarred he would run off with child again. Court said well times have changed and allows passport (he hasnt yet taken him on hols yet). He is encouraging my son to go on the internet and email him, i have read the emails also, x suggests for son to have own mobile too so they can text/call etc. Breaking court order surely? I want my x to stick to court order of twice a wk at the moment, at least till he is a teenager, then im sure it will be out of my control. I worry about internet paedo's etc and virus's, my son opening unknown emails and all that. WHERE DO I STAND? Am i in the wrong? Should i let them email back and forth? My x is always threateneing me with court at every questionable issue. I give in to him all the time, he bullies me, threatens me and reduces me to tears so many times. Do i give in...or go back to court? I am single and on my own, i work 6 hrs a day and live wage packet to packet, i have no savings to pay for court. Yes i could stop my son using my laptop i suppose thats the key here, but he loves going on some internet games specifically designed for kids. I have settings on pc to prevent any invassive games being allowed etc. PLEASE HELP WITH ADVICE I AM SICK TO DEATH OF THE THREATS AND HIS CONTROL.
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HE IS THREATENING TO TAKE ME BACK TO COURT AGAIN..CAUSE I WONT LET MY 11YR OLD HAVE EMAIL ACCESS TO HIS FATHER AND CHAT FREELY...PREVIOUS COURT ORDER SAYS ONLY 2 PHONE CALLS A WK.
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zara206y · 28/11/2012 07:34
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