Hello. Sorry to bother you. I am now in yr 3 of getting divorced. Both myself and exH have legal aid solicitors.
The process has been smooth albeit long...there have been no issues that have needed taking to court. My concern is that I am still financially tied to my exH, who now has another family, new baby etc. Apparently, he has signed his consent order and sent all particulars to his solicitor. My solicitor has been asked to chase these up as they have not yet been forward for me to sign. This chasing up of the consent order has been going on now for seven months alone. It took solicitor a year to write the consent order and issue it.
Is this usual? My solicitor never returns my calls...probably once in six months. I am a worrier by nature and just want to end all ties to exH as it is making me anxious that he may be able to ask me for more money in future. I am a full-time student and have paid him 50k for his 45% of the home. There are no further items / money to share right now...but I am anxious to get this all finished. I don't want to apply for Absolute until this is over.
Do have you have any words of wisdom as to how I can chivy this along? Will my solicitor be annoyed for me constantly chasing him? Is this a normal lengthy process and am I worrying over nothing?
Thank you.
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