Here is a brief background.
Ex and I have been split for 4 years, 2 kids age 7 & 5.
Regular contact between him and kids, 2 evenings a week and stay Fri - Sun alternate weekends.
Recently I went back to work full time, so need more help with the kids so requested via solicitor that we change contact to collection from school two days a week and stayed contact after school Fri - drop off at school Mon am.
He rejected this due to work commitments and we went to mediation.
This also did not bring about any resolution, he is refusing to budge and help with any extra and I am left relying on family to assist with drop off and collections from school.
After mediation broke down our relationship too turn for the worse and I wrongly withheld contact with the kids until he agreed to my demands (terrible I know), although contact has now resumed.
I received a letter from his solicitor stating he had made application to the court for contact as per the original agreement/terms and I would receive papers in next 7 days.
What I want to know is is it worth me perusing with the court to force him to take on the extra days/contact as I now also have work commitments.
My solicitor originally advised yes, but I have not spoken with her yet, as am unsure how to proceed.
Or will my ex get terms as he wants as he is the one applying to the court?
Any advise or experiences would be appreciated.
Thanks.
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He's taking me to court - advise please
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dfull · 29/10/2012 11:42
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