Hi, we had a great nanny who got pregnant. She is now keen to return to work, but she wants to bring the little one with her.
I gave her some positive messages about returning to work after maternity leave with the little one before she left on leave as I didn't know how things would work out, but nothing was written down. I have really challenged myself hard and have torn myself apart as I'm loyal to her, but I can no longer see how this will work. My eldest (5) has just started school and my youngest (3) is an energetic little thing who goes swimming, to gymnastics etc and I can't see how the nanny can cope with the school run and all of the clubs etc with her own little one in tow. She's already said that she'd have to stop doing a couple of the things with my 3 year old even when my 5 year old is in school.
I told the nanny last week. She was understandably upset. After a trip to citizens advice, she has since sent me a letter asking me to think again - some of the wording in there suggests that she will take me to an employment tribunal if I don't concede.
Help! I have a good nanny who covered her maternity who wants to stay on, but I'm torn - can't see how my original nanny will work with her little one (who she is refusing to leave at home) and don't want to end up in an ET.
Any advice welcome!! Note that I posted on another part of the site earlier - loads of good feedback but feels I need some legal steer.
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EJLstressed · 28/10/2012 00:33
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