My mother is a nasty piece of work. She has bullied me from being a teenager and is continuing to do this throughout my adult life. I have a 7 year old daughter and she says things about me in front of her which upsets her. I try to avoid contact with her but the trouble is I ended the relationship with my daughter's dad which he struggled to come to terms with until recently and my mother has taken it upon herself to side with him, inviting him around at every opportunity so they can have discussions about me and my new boyfriend. This has been going on for over 3 years now and things are deteriorating quickly.
I have always been generous with my daughters dad, letting him have access to her every weekend as his job prevents him from seeing her during the week. He has been turning up to my house later and later on a Friday night so I suggested to him that when its so late he should just see her Saturday morning, this didnt go down well and he has threatened legal action against me for joint or even full custody saying that I am a bad mother. He then contacted my mother and I received a string of text messages from her telling me "she will see me in Court" and banning me from my own sisters wedding because she was going to invite my ex and his new girlfriend. There is a number of issues I need advice on....
- I am happy for my ex to continue seeing my daughter on a weekend as long as its not too late on a Friday night but I want him to stop taking her round to my mother's, is there anything I can do to stop this?
- My ex has only started mentioning full custody etc since he met his new gf who has 2 kids and is from Denmark, he also has my daughters passport from a recent holiday they went on, can he take her out of the Country without my consent?
Any advice would be much appreciated. Since I left my ex I have had a constant battle with him and my mother getting involved in every part of my personal life. I don't want contact with him other than to discuss my daughter and I want my mother out of mine and my daughters life altogether.