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child maintenance if hes unemployed but with assets?(7 Posts)
my stbeh will likely be unemployed next month... does he still have to pay maintenance for the children... he will still have an income of around 800 per month and we have financial assets that he could cash up if he chooses to. If he does cash up, is this taken into account when we come to financial settlement in the divorce... ie we split our assets and monies he has cashed up since seperation are taken into account? or is it a case of once its spent its no longer in the pot to be divided?
If he has assets worth £65k or more he is assumed to derive an income from them. The net profit he makes from renting out any property would count as income as well.
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If there are children involved, their interests will always come first. It is the childrens right to maintain a meaningful relationship with the non-resident parent (NRP) not the other way around. Children are not possessions to be fairly divided between separating parents. Parents have no rights, only responsibilities. A divorce will not be granted where children are involved unless there are agreed arrangements for finance, and care of the children (Statement of Arrangements for Children). It is obviously quicker and cheaper if this can be agreed but if there is no agreement, the Court will make an Order (Residence and Contact regarding children, Financial Order or Ancillary Relief in the case of Finance)
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I just claimed via CSA and furious to be told exh significant income from let houses not included in assesment - only his directly earned income from employer - will deprive my kids of their share of about 15k pa - plus, no back dating of claim to when he left despite him stringing me along for months with promises of a private agreement - obviosuly he knew no backdating and we're now in real poverty thanks to csa, fuckwit solicitor who advised against claiming months ago and financially savvy arsehole ex.I'm gobsmacked.
Apply for a variation. Some forms of income aren't taken into account at first instance. This may be one of those.
My ex husband only pays £7 per month for my two children. I have been to the CSA who cannot help any further as he is self employed. He lives in a house worth £750,000 which he has put into his partner's name. Has anyone got any ideas to help me PLEASE
Apply for a variation on the ground that he has a lifestyle inconsistent with declared income, or deliberate deprivation of income. Hard to prove though, and you'll need good evidence.
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