I posted this in Lone Parents but didn't get any useful responses, so trying here.
I am moving to Trafford next month and need a solicitor who takes Legal Help/Aid cases and has experience of dealing with issues involving abusive non-resident fathers.
I also need to think of a way of facilitating contact once I move. My daughter is 15 months old. It will have to be one day a week (presumably at the weekend as he works) as he'll be 175 miles away then, so it can't be more often (although he sees her three times a week now).
But I need to find someone to supervise, and a place for it to happen. I'm not happy having him in my home, I stopped him coming there when she was six months old. I do have family near there, but the nearest person is very busy/stressed and I wouldn't want to impose on them regularly. The other two are further out (in different cities) so could do it occasionally but not always.
A contact centre is not a good idea IMO because there is an expectation that supervised contact will become unsupervised just with the handover at the centre, and I don't think that he will magically become a non-abusive person just because he can behave in front of the staff for a few months. And I wouldn't be allowed in with her. So I'd rather keep it informal so I can have someone trustworthy there with us long-term (who he will behave when around). She still breastfeeds regularly (minimum every 2 hours during the day) and I've never left her before so I would have to be there for the foreseeable future.
Any ideas for what sort of person I could ask and where it could happen? I.e. is there some kind of professional who would do something like that, e.g. Social Services, a charity etc? Or will I just have to make a very tolerant friend with lots of free time?!
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iammovingsoon · 30/06/2012 15:27
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