OK here goes with the long story but I am desperate for advice please.....
Split with ex 2 years ago due to agressive/violent relationship. Police involved and a non-molestation order (1year) and contact order put in place. During that year he breached contact several times by not turning up and being very inconsistent. He also got charged again for criminal damage to my car.
Skip forward a year and I had had enough due to the impact his visits were having on the boys (8&5yrs old). So we went back to court to discuss contact as it obviously wasn't working and to apply for another non-molestation order. I may add here I was 3 months pregnant and he was threatening when coming to see the boys so was advised to do this. HOWEVER this got rejected at court. When we went back 2 weeks later he declined all offers of adjourning to get legal representation/said I had lied/prevented him seeing the children and basically walked away from them. I and my solicitor were very shocked.
Anyway (sorry this is long)!! NOW he has had a change of heart and wants to see them again. I do not know where I stand legally if I say no? Does anyone have experience of this???
He has parental responsibility of one child only and has never paid maintainance. I am 2 weeks away from having baby number 3 with my new partner and looking to move house in april. I also need to know if I legally need to inform him. My solicitor is taking her time answering questions and I am getting very stressed especially with the MIL pestering me too :(
Would be grateful if anyone responds xx
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lucyfluff · 13/03/2012 14:37
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