Just got an email from my exp, father of ds and dd, telling me he's gone to work in Abu Dhabi and won't be paying child maintenance anymore. We've had a relatively amicable arrangement until now - no CSA or court order - he's just calculated what my share of his take home is each month and transferred it to my bank account. I thought I could trust him. He says there isn't an agreement between UK and AD and that he doesn't legally have to pay me a penny whilst he's there! Can't believe it. He must be on a packet too.
Does anyone out there have experience or knowledge of this. Please. If he's right and he doesn't have to pay up whilst he's there, does he have to back date payments when/if he comes back? Is there anything the CSA can do to help me?
Ironic that it's fathers' day. Sh*thead.
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ExP emailed from Abu Dhabi to say no more maintenance... can this be right?!
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