Hi...my 21 yr old sister has a 20 month old daughter to a married man. He's flitted in and out of their lives the whole time and has never paid. He pushed her so far this weekend that she took an overdose after an arguement and got took to hospital. The father took his daughter assuring my sister he would bring her back the next day when she was better. Now he's still got her (since sat) and neither the police or social services can do anything about it as he's named on the birth certificate and well within his rights apparently....as my sister is within her rights to snatch her back on the street....the law is crazy! Anyway, he's refusing all phone calls and phones the police when we go to his home (where he has his wife other kids and "love child"....strange I know). He wouldn't meet my mum yesterday, to give her some familiar stuff from home....he'd had a "stressful" day apparently. We've to go to the solicitors tomorrow to get an emergency residence order but are worrying to death that we aren't going to get her back.
Although my sister is experiencing difficulties it is all down to this excuse of a man who's abused her and lied from day one from his age to being married. He wasn't there when she went thru an abortion last year or a miscarriage 3 months ago. Will the courts work in her favour? How long is this going to take. I'm going out of my mind and it's breaking my heart to see my sister like this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Emergency Residency Orders...Please help!!!
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linziluv · 16/08/2010 22:34
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