hi. this is a kind of spin off from another thread of mine, but with a more specific question.
when i first had my 2 dds, now aged 5 and nearly 8, being a mum of tiny children defined my very existence. i felt that there were lots of things i couldnt do with them in tow, and at times felt a bit claustrophobic doing the whole 'toddler group circuit.'
my dds are now very independent, caring and helpful. and family life is fun.
but i want another baby.
would my dds benefit or feel neglected?
my quetion is, will a new baby fit into the groove of existing family life, or will she/ he take over to such an extent that my life is once again defined by being being a mum of a baby?
i feel that i would be more relaxed this time round. and i wouldnt have a baby and a toddler to contend with this time.
sorry if i sound negative, but i did have some post natal stress before and want to be realistic.
any advice?x
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