Anyone have a large family with Sen children.

[Skymum82]

Hello, I have 3 children with autism, with the older 3 I didn't know they have Autism till they next one was born of that makes sense.
Any way a week after finding out my youngest (5 years), also had Autism I found out I was pregnant 🤦🏼‍♀️. The older 3 there is only 4 years between. So a big age gap with this one.
Two eldest go to a sen school, youngest we are applying for a ehcp as like her siblings she learning difficulties too.
I'm honestly so worried what people will think. It was a massive shock this pregnant and we were using protection I can't terminate. I'm honestly more worried about what the kids teachers will think and friends. 🤦🏼‍♀️. Then I feel bad like I'm failing my older children.