I have six kids all under five (3, 2 year old twins and 3 month old triplets) and I am also one of six kids. We all go home to our parents house for the holidays so there is over 20 of us including nieces, nephews and everyone’s partners. It’s hectic to say the least but we love it so much!!
Growing up with five siblings was amazing. I have an older brother and an older sister, then myself, a younger sister and two younger brothers. We range from 28-12, my sisters and I all being nine months apart (we were always mistaken as triplets growing up because our mum would dress us exactly the same for every single day out ever). My birthday is also on Christmas Day so it is a big thing in our family.
My sisters and I shared a room and so did my brothers, so we would all wake up and go wake our parents up. We’d have birthday cake for breakfast and then do Christmas presents for everyone, and then I’d do my birthday presents. We’d have everyone around so it was chaotic for lunch and then we’d do more presents after that. We usually went for walks with the dogs (we have six) around the woods by ours and we’d all have another birthday cake for supper. We loved it and we’d all spend the day laughing and playing together and it was the only time we really saw our aunt and cousin as they lived so far away when we were kids.
Now we all go to our parents again, but it’s just us and our kids now. Both sets of my grandparents passed, my nana this year, and so did my aunt in April, so our cousin is coming so he isn’t on his own. It’ll be chaotic, especially considering we have nine under tens in the house, two teenagers, two pregnant women, six dogs and my mother running the kitchen , but it’ll be all fun and games like usual.
We wake up when the kids do and we go downstairs. We have birthday cake for breakfast still and then the kids all do their presents. Adults open theirs once the kids are busy playing and we all start drinking around eleven. We have dinner and then go out with the dogs and then we have more cake and just watch films and play board games with the kids. They all love twister and guess who and we play kids monopoly. They go to bed and we break out the proper games, cluedo, catchphrase and tipping point, it’s a competitive night and the winner gets the yearly swear jar (there’s always around £100 minimum in there because my father swears like a sailor, as do my siblings and I). It’s a brilliant time and I loved growing up with my siblings, especially considering we are all quite close in age and can relate to each other. I’m so glad my kids are all around the same age and can have the same sort of relationships that I have with my siblings!
All I can really say is it can be expensive at Christmas, especially if you spoil all of your kids with really big presents every year, but the experience is so worth it and I would have tons more kids if I could!
Merry Christmas lovely, hope you and yours have a fab year!