Pregnant with number 4

[bluebellsandbuttercups]

Ok so I'm panicking a little. I have the depo injection and have been on time everytime to have the next jab. For the last few days I have felt a bit off it achy boobs etc. Anyway I have done a test and there is a faint positive so can only be early days. My other 3DC are only 4,3 and 2. How will we cope? I haven't told my husband yet, he has always been very clear about no more DC but now I'm in this situation I don't know what to do. Plus DC 3 was a happy surprise due to contraception failure from the pill. He is going to think this is my fault somehow, especially as he wanted the snip but we decided against it at the time has anyone else had the injection fail? Does it affect the baby at all? How do I tell my husband?!?

[Raver84]

Well I'm going to say congratulations if you want baby 4. If you don't however I think you need to speak to you dh ASAP and discuss your options. Going from 3 to 4 was easy but they are still another child and the workload is huge. You both need to be on board with it. Good luck.

[Monday55]

Have you told your DH yet?