We have four children and it's my husbands birthday next month and we've seen a ball which would be nice to go to, it's his birthday on the 22nd and the ball falls on the 24th so it's perfect really, I'm 7m pregnant and suffering from SPD but I was thinking this would be nice as it includes a meal and party, and I won't have to do a great deal of walking.
So yesterday we asked the children's grandad, husbands dad, if he could babysit on this one occasion, we haven't asked him before for anything like this as we rarely go out together and he has basically said no and that it falls the night he sees his partner who he has been with for 15+ yrs, they don't have plans, he just cooks a meal and they sit and watch tv for the night and share a bottle of wine, he lives local so he wouldn't have to travel far, and we even said he could bring his partner with him to our house, we were planning on having the kids tucked up in bed before we left for the ball so it would be just a case of him being here.
I also asked a friend when husbands dad said no and got a pretty frosty response despite the fact I have babysat for her numerous occasions, I've even had her kids to stay over for the night on a couple of occasions when she has wanted to go out. She hasn't said no but she has made it clear that if there is nobody else to do it then she will do it which has made me feel a bit you know like..
It's not like I've dropped this on people last min it's more than a month away.
Feeling annoyed as do have another option which is to pay a babysitter but it's basically extra cost for us which we could of done without with another baby on the way, am I being unreasonable for feeling a bit annoyed?
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ruthieruthuk · 22/10/2018 01:57
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