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TTC #4 and struggling

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EverythingNow Wed 13-Jun-18 19:48:23

After years of wanting #4 dh agreed to start ttc last summer (youngest was 6 at that point). I foolishly thought it would happen reasonably quickly as had my previous DC, I’d just turned 38.

I finally got a bfp in April but lost it 4 days later, hoped I’d fall again quickly but no luck last month. This month DH has been ill for 4/6 days of my fertile window, proper d&v ill so I can’t even say man up 😂 so I don’t think we are in with a chance at all this month. We only managed it once 5 days before.

So next month marks a year of trying, anyone else in a similar position? I’m torn between feelings of just give up as the gap is too big, and can’t bear to give up just yet...

Montsti Thu 14-Jun-18 19:39:44

I needed clomid with my 1st 3 and luckily it worked after 1, 2 & 3 months....I assumed it would then work while ttc no.4 but 6 months of clomid and nothing...last month of ttc before giving up and bfp at almost 41!! First completely “natural” a healthy 8 month old...

Montsti Thu 14-Jun-18 19:40:13

Just over a year of ttc including 6 months of clomid...good luck!

EverythingNow Sat 16-Jun-18 08:12:38

Thanks @Montsti, congratulations on your newest addition.

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