So firstly I will apologise for my ramble in advance.
Recently decided that we will stick at two children we have one of each. This has gone from a decision of wanting third to not for these reasons
One - my husbands job allows him to travel to amazing places around the world. This year we get to go too hurrah. With three this would be a lot more expensive and we probably would be able to go. Not sure I can sorry on seeing him travel around without us. (Selfish maybe)
Two- my two are happy at the moment. Eldest has asd and they are close in age making activities easier they enjoy the same things. How do people manage a bigger age gap with things to do? Mine are two and four ATM
Three- sometimes I'm at my wits end already ha! Body feels knackered
But
The pang or a larger family gets me every time. Mainly when they are older having a support network and just having that larger family tribe. I'm an only child my husband from a larger family
Anyway my point is I'm neve sure what the right decision is. Wish I had a crystal ball. I really don't want to grow old wondering what if or having the regret.
Any wisdom and it my way!
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Redpramlady · 28/05/2017 11:27
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