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3 under 3.5yo!!

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Muddywellyboots Sun 17-Apr-16 14:35:43

Eeek. I think I'm pg (v faint bfp) with #3. DS is 2.8yo and DD 8mo. This wasn't planned and quite frankly some small miracle as we've had sex 3 times since DD was born (and she took sometime TTC) and this time was the last day of my AF.

I'm terrified...
DH is adamant he doesn't want another baby. He mentioned abortion and divorce (neither of which I'm happy about !!!) but I think it was the shock.
I'm going to be 35yo with 3 under 3.5
I've had awful PND this time around and it nearly broke my marriage.
We're moving house and it's going to be financially stressful and we were counting down the months until DS was in school and we loose the huge nursery bill. Now we face more years of strain.
We have no family to help us locally.
I've got health issues that get worse in pregnancy and I'm scared about the consequences.

Ok, so clearly were not ready for w baby but it's happening. Someone tell me this will be ok????

Tsotofamily Sun 17-Apr-16 17:02:52

It will be Ok and you will manage, you will find a way to make it work.
As you said about DH it probably us shock specially as you said you've only had sec a few times and it took a while to ttc no.2

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