what would you do?
we have 3 children aged 2, 4 & 5. I would like another, not necessarily right now, but would like to get pregnant in a year or so. my husband is done, his reasons being that he would like more 'adult' time (our life currently revolves around the kids), the cost (potential school/uni fees - we live in central london and the local state secondary school is not great) & his age (he's currently 43 & doesn't want to be working forever to pay for it all).
I agree that we have given over our life to/for the kids but now that we're in it, what difference is one more & a few more years going to make? i feel like i have an overwhelming desire for another and i can't think about much else. maybe it'll pass.
anyway, my question is, do i accept his decision and try and forget about it or do i try & persuade him? when do i just let it die? did anyone's husband originally say no to no. 3/4/5 but then change their mind?
p.s re overpopulation, my sister is not having any children so i feel i am entitled to her share
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skiptatheloo · 30/01/2014 22:11
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